Personally, I'd kick the first guy out 5 minutes flat (or even tottal dismiss him if it was really agressive move), and left the second one in the game, provided he wasnt agressive to the first and as you said it was only a grab, otherwise I'd kick him out for 2 min. I'd also explain to both captains, that deliberate agressive-foults (personaly I hate these most) will not be tolerated , and that next such offence will result in permanent dismissal. If I'd hear so much as a rumble comming out of their mouth in any known or not known language to me, I'd kick that player/s out for a minute. Nazi style.


Nobody likes refferees, everyone needs them. For a ref, there's no win situation. You'll be guilty one way or the other. Just take care you dont loose your authority as a ref, dont let them get to you on the afterparty ;-)