I think you were told you were wrong. And you would have been told that no matter what you called so don't worry too much about that. Without seeing the foul and without any real detail from you I'll assume that none of the infractions were serious enough to hurt so I would have kicked both out equally. If the grab was a complete wrap around or at the neck/head where breathing becomes an issue, I'd consider 5min or dismissal for the reaction.

My question comes from that you say you reduced the penalties but still gave 2 min for a push.... that seems excessive. You reduced it from a 5?

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