hmmm, lets see.

needs to be big enough to bash everything in sight... big enough to play with boys... small enough to fit a small hand and wrist... no silly frilly bits for any silly circus skills... probably an inside flicking edge just so she can if she wants to even if she never does...

...and maybe an undercoat of pink paint just so she knows it's there. ...easy.

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it's more polite on the grating than on the subs bench